The Need to Say No

D'var Torah: Yitro

January 25, 2008

 

Over the past few months, we have been working on the design of the Aron Kodesh of the new Adath Tikvah-Montefiore Chapel. It will be a beautiful Ark on the east wall of a wonderful space for prayer, learning and celebration. After much discussion of the design of the Ark doors and deciding that they would be glass within wood borders, we decided to have the Ten Commandments symbolically etched into the glass.
 
I sat down at my computer to work on the lettering for the Ten Commandments. I made two columns with the first word of each of the commandments to represent the Ten. It hit me in a way that it never has before that seven of the Ten Commandments begin with exactly the same word and so artistically it looked boring. Even worse, the first word that repeats itself seven times is the Hebrew word Lo which means No in the imperative. The only way this could work artistically would be to at least add the second word of each Commandment so we would have more than Lo, Lo, Lo.....
 
It made me think about how, on the face of it, these Ten Commandments are so negative. Besides the injunctions to observe the Sabbath, honor your parents and the first Commandment which is more of a preamble than a commandment, "I am the Lord your G-d," these commandments speak with a negative voice. They do seem like a downer. Don't do this and don't do that.
 
We know that you can't raise a child or train a pet by just saying No. Saying No and any accompanying punishment does not and will never produce any positive behavior. At best it can suppress negative behavior. If my dog Oliver could talk and you asked him his name, I am sure that he would tell you his name is Oliver No. That's what he hears all day. His only confusion would be if his name is Oliver No or No Oliver.
 
The truth is Judaism has a lot more to say than "No."  Judaism is filled with great and lofty positive teachings such as "Justice, Justice, Shall you pursue" and "Love your neighbor as yourself." and to care for the orphan, the widow, the stranger and the poor amongst you. There are a plethora of positive teachings that can shape our behavior towards the good.
 
There was in biblical times and sadly there still is today so much evil that happens in the world that a strong voice is necessary to stand up and say No. That is wrong. Do not.  We have witnessed the ongoing killing in Iraq amongst people of the same religion.  We see this tragic killing happening now in Kenya which has been a great democracy of Africa and the atrocities continue in Darfur. Judaism has looked at the world and has seen all too clearly what is wrong, corrupt and unjust and has cried out "No,"  "Do not."  Before we can hope to shape positive behavior, we have to cry out to stop the injustices that exist. We have not always been loved for being the voice decrying injustice, and we have been especially hated by the perpetrators of those acts of injustice.
 
How ironic and how sad that this week the United Nations Security Council has worked on a resolution condemning Israel for its unjust treatment of the Palestinian population in Gaza. It would have already been adopted if not for the persistent protests of the United States.  This collection of nations in a sense is saying "No" to Israel and "Do not" continue to do what you have been doing to the Palestinian population. This is in itself a statement of the injustice and hypocrisy of the world. For months and years, since Israel's unilateral withdrawal from Gaza, Palestinian terrorists have been firing mortars at the city of Sederot and other areas close to the Gaza border. What would the governments of the Security Counsel do if mortars were raining down on their cities? They would not have been nearly as restrained as Israel. After many months of pleas by the residents of Sederot, Israel has stepped up its efforts to weed out the terrorists and the ammunition which hide amongst the civilian population in Gaza.  We can be sure that the Security Council would be silent if Israel's actions were carried out by any other country of the globe. Israel gets special treatment and maybe that is because we are the people which has proclaimed to the world "Do not...." The truth is that while the United Nations has no right, we have to hold ourselves up to a higher standard, the highest standard possible while maintaining our survival. 
 
My response to all of this. If the Palestinians were to stop their terrorist attacks against Israel from Gaza and the West Bank, we would see how quickly Israel would stop its military actions in Gaza and would open up road blocks and check points in the West Bank.  The attacks against Israel will not stop, however, because the dream of too many in the Palestinian world is not to live next to Israel but in place of Israel.  Israel's response to that Palestinian hope is "No." It comes right out of these Ten Commandments. "No," "Do not" destroy us.  In saying No, Israel is saying Yes to her survival and future. 

 

 

 

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