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Our Love For Israel

Rosh Hashanah, First Day

September 23, 2006

 

I find my love for something greater today than it has ever been before. My love is greater today because of its vulnerability we now see. I hope you share this love with me and together we translate our love into action so that it will survive for us and for our children, and children’s’ children and generations yet to come. The object of my love is Israel.


As you know, Janie and I spent a few weeks in Israel this summer. We left for Israel just a week after celebrating Elana’s wedding to Chanan Weissman our new son in law. Janie and I are married for 8 years and I already have a son in law. It’s magic. Two college graduates, one married, Samara is driving all in 8 years.


Over the years, I have stood with countless couples under the Huppah. I enjoy each one but I have to admit that I was absolutely clueless about what went into preparing for that day. I now have a clue after seeing Janie’s meticulous and loving planning that went on for months. I wanted to surprise Janie with a few days of absolute pampering in Israel and so I did some research to find the premier spa in Israel. Once I found the Spa in Israel it was difficult to get a room but I juggled the dates and the reservations were set. Israel’s premier Spa is the Carmel Forest Spa located just minutes away from Haifa. Needless to say, we never made it up north to the Spa. I didn’t get to surprise Janie because four days after we arrived in Israel, Israel itself was surprised by a totally unprovoked act of war by Hizbollah just over the northern border.


There was no expectation of war in Israel this summer but on July 14, 8 Israeli soldiers were killed, two Israeli soldiers were kidnapped and tens of Katusha rockets started raining down on Israel’s northern cities in an unprovoked attack by Hizbullah. By the evening of July 14 Israel responded with a determination to wipe out the Hizbollah threat and destroy all of Hizbollah’s arsenal which had been growing for some six years.


As I wrote in one of my e-mails from Israel, Hizbollah chief, Sheikh Nasralleh called Israel a spider’s web - complex and sophisticated but spineless and easily dismantled at the slightest breeze. He mocked Israelis as caring more for their pocketbooks and comforts and unwilling to endure any hardships. He miscalculated. One million Israelis endured tremendous hardships this summer for 35 days. Families were displaced living with friends or family farther south. Our friend David Bellin lives in one of Israel’s most northern cities Maalot. He moved his family, wife and four children to stay with his in laws in Hadera for the summer. Everyone who could, left. One day I called David to see how he was holding up and his always upbeat happy voice was missing. Some of his neighbors in Maalot were killed that day. Residents of northern Israel who could not evacuate, spent 5 weeks in shelters without air conditioning, without sufficient food and without seeing the light of day. Incomes were lost. The harvest rotted on the vines and trees. Israel’s spine was strong. Israelis up north were still tough. We have reason to be proud of them and they are deserving of our respect, and our support.


The Israeli press called Nasrallah a ben mavet  a dead man. Everyone believed it was just a matter of hours or days until Nasrallah would breathe his last and his terrorist threat would go up inflames. Israeli experts spoke about Israel taking this opportunity and going into Syria and Iran to get the job done and to truly eliminate the threat to her security.


The only person I had told about Janie’s surprise Spa getaway was Jordana. When Jordana called us in the opening days of the war and asked with great concern if we were still going up north hoping we weren’t, I thought, give it a few days and it will all be over. Israel will get the job done. I wasn’t the only one who thought along those lines. The story is that during the Six Day War Prime Minister Levi Eshkol asked Defense Minister Moshe Dayan what he was doing the next day. Defense Minister Dayan said, we’re taking the Old City of Jerusalem, the Golan heights from Syria and the Sinai from Egypt and the Prime Minister said "Good. Then what are you doing in the afternoon?" This summer was not to be another Six Day War.


In the opening days of the war, the greatest surprise was that the civilized world did not exercise its knee jerk reaction and immediately condemn Israel for its military response. Even Arab foreign ministers could not agree to condemn Israel as they saw Hizbullah’s actions as an unprovoked act of war. It almost seemed that the Messiah was but around the corner.


It took only a matter of days however for the world to return to its more usual mode and see tiny Israel as the aggressor. Nasralleh calculated perfectly. When he killed Israeli civilians he won and when he maneuvered Israel into killing Lebanese civilians he won. He set up a situation where he couldn’t lose. He stationed his rocket launchers in private homes, under apartment buildings, in mosques, hospitals. He fired barrages of rockets with the express purpose of terrorizing and killing Israeli civilians and used Lebanese civilians as human shields. No nation condemned Hezbullah for this cynical disregard of human life, men, women and children but the world condemned Israel for trying to eliminate the threat to Israeli citizens. There was no surprise here. Nasrallah calculated perfectly. Even our Secretary of State was snookered by the Sheikh and Israel had to fight with a hand and a half tied behind its back.

 

Janie and I were in Jerusalem during this time. We were very touched hearing that many of you were concerned for our safety but somewhat embarrassed by the concern as well. We were in Jerusalem. We sat outdoors at night at restaurants enjoying the beauty and calm of anther cool Jerusalem evening. We had no concerns for our own safety in Jerusalem but we did have a terribly discomfited feeling knowing that just a few hours drive up north Israelis were fearing for their very lives and a bit farther north Israeli boys were fighting and dying in Lebanon.

 

Each day I would turn on the TV hoping to hear that Israel delivered the knockout blow and the enemy threat was eliminated. Each day I would turn on the TV and hear the number of Israeli civilians and military that were killed that day. Each name was broadcast. Each picture was shown. The place and the time of each funeral was announced again and again. This is not a society that hides its loss or its grief. Israelis are a family. After days of hearing of these losses and Israel’s inability to deliver the decisive blow, I felt for the first time a terrible fear for Israel’s future. It was a horrible feeling and it was especially painful feeling it in Jerusalem. In the Middle East image is everything. If Israel came out of this war appearing vulnerable it would embolden every enemy who shares Hizbollah’s hatred of the Zionist enemy.


Then early Wednesday morning, August 2nd we received a call in Jerusalem from Paula that Michael Levin from Holland Pa. was killed in action in Lebanon. We knew Michael and his whole family, his parents Marc and Harriet. Harriet participates each year in our Yom HaShoah service as she walks down the aisle with her brother Rob Solarski who is part of our Ohev Shalom family, to light a candle in honor of their parents, survivors of Auschwitz. Michael who grew up at TI in Bensalem was here in Ohev Shalom often with his family and his many friends here from USY, from Ramah. Michael had friends wherever he ever was.
 

As soon as we heard, we called Harriet and Marc from Jerusalem. I said to Marc and then to Harriet "It is no exaggeration to say that Michael is a hero." I felt this deeply. As I had felt that terrible fear for Israel’s future and I saw how Israel was unable to deliver that knockout blow against Hizbullah, it was clear that Israel would have to sacrifice much to accomplish whatever advances it could. At that moment, Michael Levin from Holland Pennsylvania who made Aliyah and enlisted in the Israel Defense forces and was accepted into the elite paratroopers unit and gave his life for the land that he loved so deeply was a hero.


Our last day in Israel, Tisha B’Av, the saddest day on the Jewish calendar, we attended Michael’s funeral on Mt. Herzl where Israel’s fallen heroes are buried. Michael had told his parents that should he fall in battle he wanted to remain in Israel and be buried on Mt. Herzl. Michael knew what he might have to give; his very life. Harriet later told us that as they were flying to Israel she hoped there would at least be a Minyan at Michael’s funeral. My anticipation was more than a Minyan but how many people could Michael had known after living in a country for only a few years. We arrived at Mt. Herzl at 4:30 for the 5:00 service and already there was a sizable crowd. By the time the procession began to the grave, there were hundreds upon hundreds in attendance, Michael’s friends, fellow soldiers who fought along side him and respected his courage and bravery, young people and adults whose path Michael had crossed and Jerusalemites and Israelis who never met Michael but came to pay their respects to this young American whose dream was always to make Aliyah and serve in the IDF.


Michael’s commanding officer spoke at the funeral service at Har Herzl. He spoke directly to Michael and he said Michael atah gibor You are a hero. You are a hero because you chose to come to us, and fight for us and now you gave your life for us. Again and again, that day and in the days to come I heard Michael described as a hero. The story of Michael’s life, his service and his death was front page news in the New York Times and the Washington Post and throughout the US. It was front page news the following day in Israel. Attending Michael’s funeral was not a Minyan or a small gathering but an absolute outpouring of more people than I believe are even here today and we are quite a formidable congregation. We stood under the late afternoon Jerusalem sun for well over an hour and when the service was over, no one could leave. His fellow soldiers sat at his grave and prayed and wept and held on to each other. I heard Michael compared to Hannah Senesh a great hero who had made Aliyah and then lost her life during the Second World War trying to save the lives of Jews in her native Hungary. I heard Michael compared to Yoni Netanyahu who lost his life during the Entebbe Rescue Mission on July 4,1976 exactly 30 years ago.

 

A member of our synagogue Neil Greenberg visited Israel for a week at the end of August and I asked Neil to visit Michael’s grave while he was in Jerusalem. Neil’s cousin Joel was one of those Jerusalemites who came to the funeral and knew where the grave was. In Israel, the custom is to dedicate the monument at the Sheloshim, the 30th day of mourning and so the stone was already set. Neil told me on Michael’s monument are inscribed the words "An American Oleh whose love for G-d and Israel are eternal." Elana and Chanan are spending their first year of married life in Israel. They attended the unveiling service. They told us Michael is buried so very close to the grave of Yoni Netanyahu. Yoni Netanyahu was Michael’s hero. Michael is our hero.


We live in a world almost void of heroes. How many can we count who give of themselves selflessly without constantly calculating what’s in it for them? Michael is that hero. He gave all that he possibly could, his very life for what he loved with all of his heart and all of his soul and all of his might. Along with others, I try, in some way, to find some measure of comfort in Michael’s loss and I think about the blessing of loving something with every fiber of your being as Michael loved Israel. Janie and I think about Michael’s family and we pray they find some measures of comfort in coping with Michael’s loss in knowing that Michael made it to his promised land and Michael is now a part of so many of us.


My love for Israel is greater today because I take a bit of Michael’s love for Israel with me. Michael’s love was so great, we can each take a bit of his love. Michael’s life and his sacrifice should inspire us to love and to do and to give of ourselves. None of us will ever be asked to give as Michael gave but we honor his memory by expressing our love in our deeds of support for the land that he is now a part of forever.


Those thirty five days fell short of accomplishing the Prime Minister’s initial goals but the Israel Defense Forces accomplished much. Though Nasralleh declared himself the victor from his undisclosed place of hiding, he also has said in a form of apology to the Lebanese people that if he knew what Israel’s response would be, he never would have initiated his act of war.
A few weeks ago I had the joy of speaking to a local Hadassah group. The name of the chapter is 18974. The great meaning of this number in Jewish history is that it is the local zip code of the Warminster Post Office and most members of the group. It’s my zip code in Ivyland so I felt right at home. I urge all women here, in addition to belonging to our Sisterhood to belong to a Haddasah chapter, Newtown, 18974 and be a card carrying Zionist. One woman asked me if Israelis are afraid? I think more than afraid they are upset and angry that their leadership let them down and that strategic changes are necessary for Israel to survive. For Israel, this is a matter of life and death.


Today, we are to take an accounting of our lives. We call this cheshbon hanefesh  looking deep within and taking an accounting of our souls. Israelis are surely taking an accounting on a national scale. They are asking what went wrong this past July and August? How is it that the Prime Minister said they would dismantle Hizbullah and though Hizbullah is weakened it still has the majority of its arsenal. Is Israel in the hands of competent leadership in terms of the Prime Minister, the Defense Minster both of whom have such limited military experience. How did Israeli governments watch and permit Hizbollah to amass an arsenal as large and threatening as it did? Why was the IDF apparently unprepared to fight this war? Why were the soldiers fighting without adequate provisions, thirsty and hungry. Did Israel fight this war with a hand and a half tied behind its back in not wanting to harm the human shields defending the Hizbullah armaments or did Israel go overboard in bombing apartment blocks and infrastructure without sufficient reason? How did the government so neglect the residents of the north who sacrificed and suffered during those 35 days?


In many ways, Israel is a terribly imperfect place but we should be clear that Israel is not nearly as imperfect as much of the world would condemns Israel as being. During this war Israel bombed the Beirut airport and was condemned. Bombing an airport is one of an army’s first goals in war to prevent the delivery of more armaments to the enemy. One person who flew into the Beirut Airport after the war was amazed that nothing of the airport buildings was at all damaged. Israel bombed the runway so no planes could enter but was careful not to harm the airport itself. With the cease fire, Lebanon was able to quickly repair the runway and the airport is fully functional. The same is the case with Lebanon’s electrical system. The same is the case with Israel’s attempt to spare Lebanese civilian lives even at the expense of its own soldiers lives. Israel wants nothing more than to live in peace with Lebanon and the Lebanese people.


And so I return to the very beginning and I tell you that I love Israel even more today and I hope you share that love as well. I don’t love Israel because it is perfect. It is not perfect. I love Israel for many other reasons. In my text for this talk I described here some of the reasons why I love Israel so but in its place I want to quote from the D’var Torah of one of our Bar Mitzvah of this past Shabbat, Jared Band who was part of our Israel trip, became Bar Mitzvah during Hanukkah on Masada and Jared wrote " When you go to Israel, you feel surrounded by our people. Hebrew is spoken. There are Kosher Burger Kings with menus printed in Hebrew. Every door has a Mezuzah! You feel comfortable like you belong there." Jared said what I wanted to say beautifully and in far fewer words.


We feel our love for Israel more deeply because we are faced with Israel’s vulnerability. We can not see Israel as invincible any longer. I am not the only one who has been confronted by this alarming reality. On a front page editorial in The New York Jewish Week, the editor Gary Rosenblatt wrote a piece entitled "Thinking The Unthinkable." He opens by writing "Forgive me, but for the last several weeks, I have had a deeply disturbing thought that I can’t shake but have not shared - namely that there is no guarantee the State of Israel will survive forever. For someone who has grown up with the Jewish state, not knowing a time when there was no safe haven for Jews fleeing persecution and for Jewish souls seeking a spiritual core, the very thought of a world without Israel, G-d forbid, is too upsetting even to consider. The ramifications of such a tragedy speaks to the essence of who we are as Jews and how we relate to our people, our Creator and ourselves."


This is not the first time I or we have felt afraid for Israel’s future. I remember June 1967 and the first day of the Six Day War. Jews flocked to their synagogues that night. I did as well. I remember being in the Main Temple of my synagogue amidst the feelings of fear and hope. What I remember most is watching adults walk up to the Bimah and place cash and checks in baskets to the newly formed Israel Emergency Fund. I was just finishing 8th grade. I didn’t have a check and not much cash but I watched and I saw and I learned what Jewish adults do. They give. Now, 39 years later we are the adults. We again fear for Israel’s future and now it is our turn to step forward to give to the Israel Emergency Fund of our generation because we find ourselves with fear and with hope. Israelis who continued to work during the war are committing themselves to give one day’s wages to help rebuild and restore the northern part of the country. I have made that same pledge and I invite you to join me in rebuilding the lives, the homes, the cities, the businesses that were under attack by hundreds of Hizbollah rockets for thirty five days through our giving to the Israel Emergency Fund.


I believe Israel will get it right and will get it right in time. We say there is no choice. Israel knows these thousands of rockets in Hizbollah’s arsenal could be laced with biological and chemical agents and the destruction could be immeasurably greater. Israel was dealt a wake up call this summer and Israel will now find a way to respond. That way will cost Israel millions and billions of shekels and Israel is now forced to spend an even greater percentage of its annual budget on defense. Israel is in need of loans to be able to build th defense it needs to survive and continue to grow as a vibrant dynamic country. Thankfully, the United States Government provides Israel with loan guarantees so she can borrow money at favorable rates on the world market. Our investment in Israel Bonds are loans to Israel and will provide Israel with the means to defend itself and its citizens and build a great future for its citizens and for Jews throughout the world.


Ask any of the other 101 members of our synagogue who traveled throughout Israel with Jared Band during the days of Hanukkah this past December and they will tell you how deeply each one is moved by Israel’s beauty, its people, its spirit, the ancient memories and the modern vibrant society they have built. I am happy to announce our next Ohev Shalom trip to Israel will be Hanukkah 2008 leaving around December 24th or 25th. My only advice to you is when we announce our first meeting sometime early in 2008, come to the meeting ready to make give your deposit. Last year, our trip was sold out in the first week. That is a statement of your love for Israel. If possible, don’t even wait for Hanukkah 2008. Go before. Go then. Go after.


Speaking of leaving for Israel, Samara is leaving for four months of study as part of 11th grade at Akiba Hebrew Academy. We wish Samara a Niseeah Tovah  but its a bit of a bummer because the plane takes off Tuesday night the 26th and Samara’s birthday is the 27th which means she loses7 hours of her birthday but landing in Israel on your birthday is a pretty big present.

 

This past January, the Palestinians voted and they voted for a Hamas government which is committed to destroying Israel. The Lebanese voted to make Hizbollah part of the Lebanese government. Hezbollah, a proxy for Iran, is committed to Israel’s destruction. Now it is time for us to vote. We hold the ballot (Israel Bonds Pledge Card) in our hands. It is time for us to vote for the survival of the Jewish State for our generation and for generations to come.


I shared with you my fear and the fear that has been felt by others. The fear comes with the fact that there is no guarantee that Israel will survive forever. Fear can paralyze us and fear can mobilize us. Let this fear mobilize us. I ask you, in your love and in your deeds to help rebuild what has been destroyed and not only that but to continue to grow and prosper and be the shining light it is for world Jewry.


By our deeds today and together with the deeds of the Jewish people throughout the worldtogether with our brothers and sisters living in the land of Israel may we merit G-d’s protectivecare so that the unthinkable will never be. May Israel will survive l'netzach netzachim for ever and for eternity.   Am Yisrael Chai!

 

                                                                                                         Amen.

 

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